Mediation

When you are considering divorce or separation it is generally better if you can sort out arrangements for the future by agreement. The same is true where questions arise affecting your children. The aim of mediation is to help you, as a couple, find a sensible and practical solution that you both agree is fair. Couples often use mediation as a way to explore and discuss issues between them, with the assistance and guidance of an impartial mediator. Resolution mediators are trained to ensure that discussions take place with each person feeling able to negotiate on an equal footing.

Once consensus is reached your lawyers can advise upon the appropriate legal formalities which may need to be taken to ensure that your agreement is legally binding. Your lawyer can also, if you wish, provide you with partial advice in between mediation sessions which may put you at ease during the mediation negotiations. However, because many issues are resolved during mediation, couples often find that they save a great deal in legal costs by opting for mediation first.

Mediation should not be regarded as a “soft option” when it comes to financial arrangements as the process requires proper financial disclosure by both parties enabling negotiations to proceed on an open and informed basis. However, the process of disclosure can be far less painful when questions can be asked, and answers furnished, in a non-combative and collaborative manner.

Mediation can result not only in a saving of legal fees, but can ultimately help to reduce hostility, tension and misunderstandings between couples. This, in turn, helps to foster better communications and relations in the future which is so important to many couples, especially those with children.

Susie trained as a Resolution mediator in December 2004 and is enthusiastic about the real progress that can be made by individuals opting to engage in this process. Susie’s many years of experience as a family lawyer also enable her to ensure that you will each be well aware of your position in the eyes of the law throughout the process.

If you think mediation might assist you, as it has done for many separating and divorcing couples, please contact Susie for further information.